Personally I'd pick the 2013. 45k miles is nothing for these cars and you'll have the facelift (minor as that may be). You'll also get a padded arm rest, and the upgraded lateral performance damper system which minimizes body vibration and increases overall ride comfort. You may also see improvements in the "Premium" Option, such a power seat for passenger (and not just the driver). Factor in the 1g lower price, and to me, no brainer.